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Claudia's avatar

Thank you Tessa for another very relevant conversation. I loved hearing you stress how hard it is not to be the prosecutor (or the judge), really hard work ,I do it all the time as most of my nearest and dearest have succumbed to propaganda and will not listen to reason. I can sincerely say though that I pray no harm will come to those that let themselves be injured. What I find extremely difficult on the other hand is to conquer my rage. My rage against the bureaucrats, the 'experts', medical professionals even in our own family who advised taking these products and who condoned the lockdown scam. I just cannot fathom what is going on in these heads.

I keep thinking of Dietrich Bonhoeffer, a deeply religious resistance fighter in Germany during the '3d Reich', who died in prison and wrote a little treaty on the stupidity of man as being the greatest scourge on humankind...

Thanks to Chris too, I agree on the importance of Mark Passio's lectures on natural law. I wish I knew more people who took the trouble to dive into his concept. It is not a concept really, it is beautiful natural law that speaks for itself.

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Tessa Lena's avatar

Thank you so much, Claudia, and I know it's hard, you are so strong!

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Piki's avatar

Beautiful!

Thank you Chris!

Thank you Tessa!

I definitely believe in healing the present by healing the past too.

Someone else who published a fantastic book recently about these kinds of healing is Sol Luckman 'Get Out Of Here Alive'.

https://substack.com/home/post/p-163067128

https://substack.com/@solluckman

So totally good!

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Raphael's avatar

Mark Passio has good information about satanism and natural law, but he can be hard to lesson to for extended periods, as he seems to harbor much anger that comes across as a bit of an overbearing, intense energy.

As far as abuse and “prosecuting” others, my own view is that many people want some sort of payback or to be validated in some way by seeing others fall or suffer from having made the “wrong” choice or having the “wrong” opinions because, in short, these many people do not know what to do with their own pain. Feeling rejected by others, betrayed and lonely when opinions, beliefs and choices differ, they do not know how to deal with that.

Yet, the way I see it, it is very simple: when a friendship or love does not survive a difference of option or lifestyle, it was most probably unreal to begin with and based on ego validation (which has little to do with love). In other words “I like you - or love you - only because you think like me and validate my beliefs and actions…if you won’t, I will no longer like or love you”.

Interestingly, many people today, when addressing the topic of friendship or intimate relationships, speak of a need to be "validated", as if it were a real need, rather than of the real need to love and be loved. Within a culture ruled almost entirely by the ego, this is not surprising.

Real (mature) love does not require agreement. True friends, true lovers can disagree without parting or destroying what they have. Immature love cannot see past disagreement.

When we deal with immaturity, we must then feel the pain. When the people we care about hurt themselves, and we realize that we cannot do anything about it (the most obvious example of this is caring deeply about a drug addict or alcoholic), we must feel the pain, although it can tear us inside.

We must express it (by ourself preferably so as not to burden another), cry as much as we need to, hit a mattress, express our feelings every day for several months if we need to, release them, understand the root of it all and our own true needs or delusions, and survive.

We need not be proven “right” and others “wrong”. Our tears are the ultimate redeemer, because they move us out of our head and away from judgment, return us to our heart and keep it open. Look at a child in pain: a child cries, expresses his or her pain and then moves on. The most natural, direct and simple way is to feel and express, and release, and the insights come spontaneously.

We cannot change or save another person against their will (except perhaps physically in an emergency), and we cannot make another person acknowledge the validity of our perspective or even of our being. We can only heal ourself, because life will hurt us, especially when we are sensitive and caring (in other words normal)…hurting is unavoidable.

But the more we know ourselves, the less intense will be the pain, because we will no longer have unrealistic expectations, we will no longer make unrealistic demands on others. We will offer advice only when requested, without desperately needing for it to be taken to heart, and otherwise let others live their lives and follow their own paths, which include making mistakes and learning from these mistakes, as we all do without exceptions.

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nymusicdaily's avatar

that prosecutor in the mirror is me!

but you nailed it, in clinging to a mistake-punishment dynamic we end up punishing ourselves

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Tessa Lena's avatar

Thank you, and it is indeed a fine line that totally depends on genuine self-respect and doing every thing to heal our own internals so that no one can encroach upon us for a long time at all

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Kelly's avatar

Wonderful listening! Thank you both! :)

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Tessa Lena's avatar

Thank you Kelly!!

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Ellen's avatar

Hi Tessa, I look forward to listening to this ... Hoping this current FDA has the capacity to see reality, so sharing this call to comment on the lovely covid safe and effectives ~

!!*** "Comment on the 2025-2026 Formula for COVID-19 Vaccines for Use in the United States."

Comments received by Noon tomorrow (May 14) will be provided to the committee.

Comments after that (by May 23), will be "taken into consideration by FDA"

https://sashalatypova.substack.com/p/call-for-action-please-submit-public

(Lots of comments are in favor of COVID vaccination, and are asking for Novavax (also dangerous spike based). A way to meet the "need protection from COVID-19" angle is to emphasize that COVID-19 responds to treatment with repurposed drugs.

A sane way to take it seriously while not maiming and murdering people is for an honest public health system to advise preparation, support access to treatment, not more of this crime against humanity.

https://sashalatypova.substack.com/p/call-for-action-please-submit-public

https://www.federalregister.gov/documents/2025/05/08/2025-08083/vaccines-and-related-biological-products-advisory-committee-notice-of-meeting-establishment-of-a?utm_source=substack&utm_medium=email

"The https://www.regulations.gov electronic filing system will accept comments until 11:59 p.m. Eastern Time at the end of May 23, 2025. Comments received by mail/hand delivery/courier (for written/paper submissions) will be considered timely if they are postmarked or the delivery service acceptance receipt is on or before that date.

***Comments received on or before noon by May 14, 2025, will be provided to the committee***. Comments received after May 14 and by May 23, 2025 will be taken into consideration by FDA. In the event that the meeting is cancelled, FDA will continue to evaluate any relevant applications or information, and consider any comments submitted to the docket, as appropriate."

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Tessa Lena's avatar

Thank you Ellen, always wonderful to hear from you!! xoxoxo And yes, very important!

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John Day MD's avatar

Macron, Starmer and Merz wish they could heal the past, but its here on camera in slo-mo:

Macron palms the baggie of coke after affectionately grabbing Starmer's arm for a little squeeze, then swaps hands and pockets it, while Merz grabs the coke spoon with both hands and looks to see if anybody noticed. https://x.com/angeloinchina/status/1921551299222339977

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Tessa Lena's avatar

I would not qualify it as healing the past, lol. That's more like, "how aspiring rulers behave." :-)

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John Day MD's avatar

"If I Could Turn Back Time", Cher https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9n3A_-HRFfc

;-}

They were kinda cute, trying to hide the stuff on camera, while looking nonchalant and higher than kites.

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Joy N.'s avatar

Thanks for the info..

🙏🙏

The Bible prophesied 7-year Tribulation is at humanity's doorstep & the time to escape is very short. To read more, pls visit https://bibleprophecyinaction.blogspot.com/

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